It was a sad day in Atlanta this past weekend. Friday, October 2, 2009, Ashely "AJ" James lost his life. AJ, who was engaged to Housewives of Atlanta star, Kandi Buress, died due to a blow to the head in a one-on-one fight at his club, Body Tap in Atlanta. My thoughts and prayers go out to Kandi, AJ's family and friends and most of all his 6 children. If you'd like to send your condolences to Kandi, you can do so via her twitter- kandiconnection. Check out AJC to read more details.